Hey You . . .

The end of another busy year (are they ever not?). Can you recall all your hopes, resolutions and expectations back in January? In the blur of forgotten doings, how many conversations did you partake in? How many goals and tasks did you set and complete?

This morning I ripped off the 337th calendar day – we’re almost there! Did I succeed in growing and being, rather than just doing and accomplishing? In the breathing in and out of my life, I wonder how many reports, meetings, presentations and evaluations will remain truly memorable in the long term?

I didn’t watch enough sunrises, and I struggle to remember many of the beautiful sunsets. Was I not in the moment? I do recall embracing the new buds of Spring, the falling autumn leaves and first snowfalls on darkened mountains.

I also remember the faces and meaningful conversations, like a mosaic of tiny chips of coloured light in a stained-glass window. Now I ponder my year and reminisce:

I see the love in the eyes of my parents. I feel my sister's strong hug. I sense the visceral joy of life and laughter with my partner as we ski, explore parks, inhale the aroma of pine needles and sample tasty desserts. Embracing my beloved; slowly unraveling out of bed to greet the morn.

I cherish the bright inquisitive eyes of young children; the swirling majesty of the Aurora Borealis in Whitehorse; smiles and hugs from friends new and old; singing in a large choir; standing with others in prayer; feeling secure, warm and nurtured within my community.

I relive being present this year with people in hospital who awaited scary test results; working to assist those who feel life isn’t worth living any longer; offering comfort to those who wonder if all their efforts are futile . . .

I shared light-hearted banter and deep soul searching with new-found friends: tea and conversation about life, spirituality, the mundane and the extraordinary. I watched the beauty of couples embracing their decades-old vibrant love.

Gusts of wind, the splash of waves against my face, the sun’s warmth, the blessings of life and of living. Watching the brave growth of seeds, plants and my dreams.

These are some of the pieces I hold close this Advent: the pieces that bring perspective to this 21st century overachiever who is trying to make a meaningful life.

Hey you:

Please pause.

Be present in this beautiful world.

Walk with kindness and hope, compassion and love

Hold on to the love that sustains you

Share it

Live it

Breathe it out to others

Light the candle tonight

Say the prayer

Breathe the breaths.

Blessings,

David